I (30M) can’t be the only one who experiences this. Friends, family, even internet strangers will say it. I’ve been here for 11 years plus and cannot imagine living anywhere else. Culture, diversity, food, art, buildings, parks. Gay shit. I don’t have to drive!
I can understand that it’s not effective to focus on what we feel things “should” be like because it doesn’t match with reality. But when I complain about navigating what makes this city difficult, or how NYC “should” be more equitable, more affordable, people will quote the title. I feel like it’s the “if you don’t like it, leave” saying that gets thrown around so often in American politics.
I know they are well intentioned and trying to problem solve. But damn, I love this city. This magnificent, imperfect city and world hub. Maybe they just don’t get it. Can anyone relate? I’m not looking for advice, just shared experiences.
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