How do you manage anger at people for not following NYC etiquette?

For example, people on their phones moving slowly up the stairs (not speaking to someone’s ability to walk fast but specifically them being slow because they’re texting), people on the subway listening to music or tiktoks or doing a FaceTime without headphones, people hogging the entire sidewalk and stuff. The other day a woman walked onto a nearly empty train and literally stopped right after entering because she opened up her phone and glared at me when I accidentally bumped into her. Once there were parents on the right and left sides of the stairs holding their kid’s hands so they could swing. Like I get it’s cute (?) but it’s not the time and place.

I’m a very impatient person and a born and raised New Yorker and I can’t handle the energy of constantly being mad at these types of people