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This question is not what it sounds like. I am a dude in a long term relationship (straight). All my friends are also in long term relationships or married, and they never want to do anything. I feel like I need more single friends cause they actually want to do stuff. Anyone have suggestions for

I always use the same phone and same card, and I have way more than 12 scans in a week. Yet, my card is charged every single time. My most recent statement had 28 scans in one week, charged for every single one. Am I doing something wrong? submitted by /u/Hall_Educational [link] [comments]

This is truly sad but not surprising. submitted by /u/Familiar-Range9014 [link] [comments]

I’m curious how many times people hang out with others, whether that’s hanging out at someone’s apartment, going somewhere, a bar, etc. Mostly interested in hearing from people who don’t have kids. submitted by /u/OutrageousPressure6 [link] [comments]

I’m 72 years old and still working and commute into the ‘city’ from Brooklyn three times a week. I have been a regular subway rider for my entire life. But in the past two years, I’ve noticed that almost no one is as old or older than I am. Of course, I’m guessing their ages

I don’t know if I remember this correctly but I swear I used to see more boots out on the street. Now it’s so much Hoka, On, and other sneakers. It could be pouring rain and almost everyone is still wearing (white) sneakers, not rain boots. Does anyone else remember? submitted by /u/NewYorkerGuy [link] [comments]

Or most importantly, how do YOU feel about it? Do you like it? Is it annoying? Do you not care? I feel like with how often it’s played, especially when I go there, it is can get kind of annoying. submitted by /u/nxptnpr [link] [comments]

I’m a pretty bad offender on this: I eat out every lunch & dinner because it saves me time. I end up spending around $25-30/day. Does anyone else do this? submitted by /u/ROBOT-MAN [link] [comments]

I have lived in NYC for three years and never got to know my neighbors. They never knocked on my door, and I never knocked on theirs. The only time I saw them was when we waited for the elevator. It’s not like I didn’t want to know them, but it always felt intrusive to

I just had a delivery up there to 116th to find out I had to walk down two blocks and then back up to get to Amsterdam. How are they allowed to just close off a public street from pedestrians? Does Baruch college close off their plaza exclusive to students? No. It’s absurd that Columbia

Hi guys, So I am from Ireland but somehow over last few weeks I became obsessed with NYC mayoral race and I would love to hear some stories about people who might have met Śliwa in real life 🙂 I am glad Mamdani won, but Curtis seems absolutely fascinating submitted by /u/dumplingslover23 [link] [comments]

40% turnout: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2025_New_York_City_mayoral_election submitted by /u/flyingcircus92 [link] [comments]

Moved abroad for a few years but came back to a tacky TikTok hellscape filled with 22 year olds. Where did all of the mid-30s to early 40s former residents go [in Manhattan]? submitted by /u/Odd-Move-3620 [link] [comments]

I need yall to help me! This is my first week at my new job and today my boss gave me 490 dollars for the 70 hours I worked this week (10 hours a day with no dayoffs!!) He said he pays starting workers 7 dollars an hour and that it goes up with time.

The context: I’m a beauty influencer and I am looking at all the STUFF I get mailed to me daily and reevaluating what to do with it all. Makeup, skincare, perfume, etc… With the holiday season approaching I was hoping for some leads on where I might be able to donate it to. I contacted

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Hey all! I just moved to Manhattan a month ago chasing a job in hopes of a better career, though I’m dealing with some apartment concerns and was wondering if this is just how NYC operates. I moved into a new construction spot, 15 units, up in Harlem. I found out the day I moved

I voted earlier this morning and I signed my name the usual way, and they kept saying it was not how I registered. I’ve voted in every election for the past 8 years and I’ve never had this happen. She said I had “One more try” and then I’d have to do something. It was

Emergency rooms in NYC are so overcrowded and often you’re waiting on a gourney to be seen. I’ve been to emergency rooms in upstate NY in college and you’re seen much sooner. I get the thing of priority (obviously if you’re dying or come in an ambulance for an emergent reason, you’ll be soon later

Hi everyone, I have a question about gifts and what’s considered appropriate or thoughtful in Chinese culture. I’m a Hispanic American woman, born in NY and in my 30s, and I’ve been getting takeout from the same Chinese restaurant on my block for about eight years. The cashier is a Chinese woman around my age

Hello, any other New Yorkers on EBT who have no idea what they are going to do once November 1st When SNAPS gets cut? Where are you going for help, can anyone send me resources. I am trying to figure out what to do and the HRA is not helpful submitted by /u/Forsaken-Dot-3766 [link] [comments]

In June, I decided I wanted to date again after taking a 4 year break – I’ve been using hinge mostly and it feels like I’m consistently ghosted or I get the ‘I’m not ready for a relationship, cya bye’ text from men. I don’t know what to do anymore – I’m 24 and I’m